3 A JOPLIN OLOBE, Thurjdoy, May 9, 1968. Daniel Prier, Janice Marbut Head Pnrdy Graduating Class PURDY, Mo. Daniel Prior, son of Mr. HERMAN JUNIOR HILL, 86 HAINES CITY Herman Junior Hill, 86, of Haines City, Florida went home to be with his Lord and Savior on Wednesday, July 4, 2018, as he was surrounded by his loving family. He was born August 11, 1931 in Blount County, Alabama to the late Coy Hill and Cleslie (Mitchell) Hill. He has been a resident of Haines City since 1955.
Of course there are situations in which it’s not that simple if one half of a loving couple has an illness or injury that makes conventional sex impossible, for example but I’m talking here about relationships with physical connections at their core.It’s not shallow to want to have a decent sex life, it’s human instinct.Sex is how we communicate and bond on an animal level and without it we might as well just be work colleagues.I spent more than a decade in a relationship with someone whose sexual appetite was completely at odds with mine and I can tell you now that sex (or lack thereof) was at the core of every argument we ever had.How can anyonenot begin to harbour resentment towards someone who knows they’re unhappy but doesn’t want to do anything about it?That’s not a conflict in sexual desire, it’s a lack of care for your emotional well being.If there is a problem in your sex life that is down to issues beyond your control and it’s no one’s fault, you have to decide whether you can make up for it in other ways.But if one of you just wants more (or less) sex than the other, or you love a bit of bondage while your partner isn’t up for anything more than three straight humps and a snooze, you’re on a roller coaster to relationship hell.These issues are often emotional, rather than physical.Many people agree that bad sex is an issue in relationshipsHannah: ‘If it was just that they needed to learn what I like then I would be happy to teach them but there are some people who are just generally crap at sex and that’s a no no for me. I think you should watch someone dance before you sleep with them it’s a great indicator!’Remie: ‘My definition of “rubbish in bed” is “not remotely interested in what a partner likes”. And that’s definitely a deal breaker.’Jess: ‘I’d only dump someone unwilling to be taught or who thought they knew it all and if the person makes it too awkward or uncomfortable to broach that subject you shouldn’t be with them anyhow.’Thom: ‘Rubbish sex is often more about poor sexual compatibility and/or lack of chemistry and if that isn’t there to begin with then you can’t usually fix it.’Good looks don’t mean anything when you’re horizontal, either.People who make no effort in the sack because they think their pretty face makes up for lack of effort are never a desirable sexual partner.Bad sex is most often caused by bad attitude, not the size or shape of a person’s body or genitals.It’s caused by a partner who doesn’t care if you’re satisfied, so long as he or she is.If the problems with your sex life are simply down to being with an unappreciative partner, then the sooner you recognise it for what it is, the better.Start making escape plans, because life is too short for this.Sex is an incredibly powerful and compelling urge in humans.Suppressing that urge because your partner has issues or even worse, going along with sexual acts that make you unhappy to in order to please a partner risks long term emotional damage.No one should have to do things in bed that they don’t want to and that works both ways.So if you want more sex or kinkier sex than your partner and it’s making you both miserable, that’s as big a problem as if they wanted it and you didn’t..